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OLD TOGETHER

2009-03-20T22:27:00.000-07:00

i have read about the divorce statistic in the newspaper and it is really shock me.In today's age for a couple to think of growing old together seems, sadly, a bit foreign. The rate at which divorces are taking place and couples separate, it is a difficult task. This was not so, only two three decades ago. The changing norms have taken a big toll on the relationships. How about you? Do you believe that you will grow together till old age?

RELATIONSHIP

2009-03-15T22:26:00.000-07:00

A relationship demands sacrifices. Both the partners sacrifice to make the relationship work. Recently I was with a couple and I was listening to the sacrifices the wife had made. She said: I used to paint when I was young. I was a dancer. I loved hiking. I loved outdoor sports. But now I am so overwhelmed with kids and home that I have no time for myself. I did not ask the husband but I am sure that he has also given up many things to make the relationship work. The question is do either of them feel grateful to the other for the sacrifices?

SUSPICIOUS WIFE..

2009-03-12T22:20:00.000-07:00

This is good reading for husband.As a private investigator, a lot of people ask me how to find out if their wife is cheating on them. I tell them this – it requires three things: intelligence, dedication, and patience. Before you start to think about how to catch a cheating wife, the intelligence should kick in. Why do you think that your wife is cheating? Has she began to come home later than she said she would? Do you often smell the cologne of another man on her? Have you seen suspicious emails on her computer? It is possible that you are just being paranoid, and that there is no real evidence that your wife is cheating at all. In that case, you shouldn't be asking how to catch a cheating wife, but rather, how to get some psychiatric help.HAHAHAHAHAH...

ANIMAL

2009-03-11T22:17:00.000-07:00

How many pets have you had?

There are so many needy animals up for adoption that it is really hard to believe that so many people patronize the pet shops. We humans as a race have done a rotten job caring for the animals that we claim to love. We let so many unwanted ones be born, and then simply have them put to sleep when they become inconvenient. If you are thinking of getting a new animal companion, I must suggest as strongly as possible that you think of getting one of the animals for adoption to care for. After all, you will still have all the benefits of caring for a pet, and in addition will be making an important difference in the life of an animal.That was my opinion in what i have read in the internet about the animal adoption.

BABY AND ME

2009-03-10T22:09:00.000-07:00

Recently I have read about how to communicate with baby. Wow! isn't that great thing to know a baby language. in that article there are a few tips in how to understand baby language. the most effective way is the baby sign language. Actually a baby talking with the movement,expression and a sign. But the most important thing to understand the baby language is you have to be a parent first.

would you go out with me?????

2009-03-09T21:56:00.000-07:00

I have read an article about tips for date in the internet and my opinion is a good relationship advice does not come from mass media entertainers, but from qualified professionals. If you are looking for advice on dating, for God's sake, go to a qualified professional. A Psychologist, Psychiatrist, or Social Worker is trained to help people to sort out all of the aspects of their life, from childhood to grave. They are the only people who are trained to give you advice on dating that is really worth anything. However, just having a degree and some training does not guarantee that you can give dating advice that is worth anything. Above all, like everything else in this life, it comes down to simply learning to trust yourself and your own instincts.

Television now and then

2009-02-18T05:35:00.000-08:00

Television has become a common communication receiver since it is commercially available in late 1930’s until now days. Television has trough so many revolutions since back then and until now the process is still continue. I have made a research about the revolution of the television and compare the television back then and now. There are some similarities and differences between the televisions now and then.
Even though there are big time boundaries between the televisions back then and now and through so many revolution but there are still some similarities between the television now and then. The first similarity is both of them have a plug in speaker. The user does not have to use the earphone to listen the sound. The second one is television is still using a button. The button is use for adjust the channel, adjust the volume, or to power on and power off the television. The third one is the revolution of television do not make a change the usage of electricity as the source to run the television. This is because the electricity is the cheaper and the easier source that user can get in this world until now.
The big time boundaries have made the television now days have so many differences since back then. First difference is the television back then use the fish bone antenna and now days the antenna has been change to the parabola antenna. The fish bone antenna have weak transmission signal that can only receive one or two channel in a time but it is different situation by using the parabola antenna that have a strong transmission signal that can retrieve thousand of channel in a time. Secondly the user of the old television have to change the channel or adjust everything by push the plug in button on it while now day user just have to push button on the remote control. The invention of remote control have make the user can change the channel from far away. The third one is the screen of the television only can display only white and black color while now day with plasma screen we can see full color movie with the high quality of picture. Next difference is with the new technology now day the thick shape of the old television has been upgrade with more slim and nice look.
As the conclusion, television now days is more sophisticate compare to the television back then. This is because television is number one information device in the world. The revolution of the television is a must to make sure the information are send effitionly.

Are you my friend?...

2009-02-06T06:38:00.000-08:00

I have recently read about 'Friendship' in Wikipedia.
'Friendship' is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more beings. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them. Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:

* the tendency to desire what is best for the other,
* sympathy and empathy,
* honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart
* mutual understanding.

Obesity

2009-02-06T06:34:00.000-08:00

I had read an article about obesity.
If u looks around you these days, you will notice that many are many children overweight. Why is obesity becoming more common among children these days??A lack of interest in sports, addiction to the television and computer and unhealthy eating habits are major reasons why more and more children are obese these days.

Obesity among children can be prevented by encouraging and motivating them to participate in outdoor activities, restricting the number of hours spent in front of the TV and computer and changing their dietary habits. If these solutions are not taken seriously, then it is likely that we will have a nation of obese and unhealthy adults in twenty years' time.

Can you forgive me...

2009-02-06T06:28:00.000-08:00

I have read about forgiveness.
To forgive someone is not a feeling but it is a principle of life. It is a lesson that we must learn and is a lifelong lesson. What it says is correct: To forgive someone that you love is easy but it is not true forgiveness. True forgiveness is to forgive your enemy and never hold grudges against he or she no matter what he or she do to us. If we can’t forgive someone, it will leads to anger, resentment, bitterness, hatred, retaliation, violence and what is the worse which is murder.
Forgivessness seems to be a very simple topic but very least of us take a deep think of it and we never know that actually all those murder cases, suicides, all happened because of unforgiveness.

So, we must learn to forgive someone no matter it’s how unfair to us because truth will be revealed one day.

Dr. Tuah

2009-02-06T06:08:00.000-08:00

When I am in form 5 have borrow a motivation book by Dr Tuah from my school library. I think everybody knows who Dr Utah is? Actually I am a fan of Dr. Tuah.
In many chapters that I have read, there is something I want to share. Dr Tuah said, we must say something good and positives to our self. So we would not think that we are not good as the others, and I interested to practice this one thing.
Every morning, after we wake up, go to the mirror and smile and said that we are good and were prepare to face the new day .Dr Tuah said that we also must can do the same thing that we do in the morning at night before we go to beds, its mean that we are able to handle problems or other thing that happens on that day
and we will feel motivated and try to do better.

AL AQSA

2009-02-05T06:01:00.000-08:00

I have read about our mosque of Al-Aqsa just now. As we know mosque of Al-Aqsa is the first qiblat of Muslim before its transfer to Kaabah. But now the mosque of Al-Aqsa is under Jews. Jews take an advantage to confusing people especially Muslim.They have distributed the picture of Dome of The Rock as a mosque of Al-Aqsa. Sometimes they sell with a low price and sometimes they give as free to many people. Jews only have one reason to do this which is to demolish the real mosque of Al-Aqsa. As a Muslim, I think we should know how to differentiate between mosque of Al-Aqsa and Dome of The Rock. We did not to be fool by anyone that can destroy our belief in God. Let’s we think about it.

YOU ARE A LIAR.. HAHAHA...

2009-02-04T08:49:00.000-08:00

Do you know how to detect whether the person is lying or not? It must be difficult right? I have a few tips that I get from the internet today to know the person you are talking is lying or not with their behavior. I think that the tips are very useful, but I also think that only useful for some people that their behavior is contrast with these tips. My tip is before you want to judge a person with this tips you have to know their behavior first.

AYAT-AYAT CINTA..

2009-02-04T05:44:00.000-08:00

Ayat-Ayat Cinta (literally meaning The Verses of Love) is an Indonesian bestselling novel by Habiburrahman el sherazy. This is a latest novel read and what a great novel. For me this novel is not just a love novel but it is a medium of dakwah. The story is actually based in Cairo, Egypt. Ayat Ayat Cinta is a beautifully portrayed Islamic love story – a tale of a virtuous Muslim protagonist who overcomes all obstacles of life maintaining pure ideals. The main character Fahri bin Abdillah is a poor, intelligent student who wins a scholarship to complete his graduate degree at Egypt's esteemed Al Azhar University. Very disciplined and dedicated by nature , Fahri embraces his life in Cairo, completing his studies and translation of religious books with full enthusiasm, exactly according to pre-determined targets.Only one goal is left unattempted ,the pursuit of marriage. For Fahri is innocent and pure, and doesn't believe in the concept of relationships prior to marriage. He is inarticulate and shy around women. All his life, only two women have been close to him which his mother and grandmother. Life changes drastically in Egypt for he suddenly finds himself surrounded by four beautiful, distinctly different women. Maria Girgis,a shy, open-minded Coptic neighbor who is attracted to the teachings of the Holy Quran, finds herself falling in love with Fahri. Nurul,a student at Al Azhar like Fahri,is the Muslim daughter of a renowned Indonesian cleric. Fahri feels unworthy of her and thus ignores his feelings for her, leaving her confused and guessing.
Noura,an abused Egyptian neighbor, develops strong romantic feelings for Fahri,who in turn simply sympathizes with her situation. His romantic rejection destroys her and eventually leads to a false accusation of rape. Aisha, a German Turkish student in Cairo haunts Fahri with her beautiful eyes. Following an incident on the metro where Fahri defends her against narrow minded bigoted Muslims, both immediately develop feelings for each other. As the story unravels, the protagonist makes the audience face the daunting decisions he himself faces, and forces us to marvel at his undying loyalty to the true ideals of Islam as he ultimately makes the choice of a lifetime.So,if you want to know the ending of the story, you better watch the movie. Believe me,it,s worth to read this novel.
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